It's a tribal thing
You will recognize and find your tribe, and they will recognize and find you, when you become who you are meant to be.
Prior to that you will most likely hang with the wrong tribe.
A tribe that has no idea who you are or who you are meant to be. They may redefine you, misdirect you, and confuse you.
It is time to discover who you are, accept who you are, then you will become who you are meant to be. The source of your true identity is in knowing your Creator.
But you must believe that He IS. Believe.
Become. Be found. Be.